Hi Diane. I'm in Derbyshire. I've been menopausal for about 4 years (I'm only approaching 47 though!). Slimming World has worked for me in the past but this time round, trying Extra Easy and nothing happening, then trying to go back to red and green and getting frustrated at the lack of progress I haven't been able to shift the extra weight, been struggling along since long before Xmas - I only had around a stone to lose so not a huge amount, but I do feel frumpy and lumpy carrying the excess. I feel quite sure that hormones are a contributing factor - though probably not totally...
...I think with the weight not shifting my head gets all 'wrong' and then you eat badly so instead of the odd bad day, you have one after the other and keep telling yourself that the following day will be better. I got the plate cus dad had just been diagnosed with diabetes and thought I'd get one for mum too who always wants to lose some weight. Because I bought three I negotiated a special price with the chemist shop I bought them from so they worked out about £15 (I figured that it was an extra useful plate that would last for years anyway, even if it didn't work). I was extremely sceptical when I dished up my first evening meal on 27th June - it looked tons smaller than I would normally have, but I certainly didn't feel hungry after it, and some days I can't quite manage it all.
I generally have a light lunch eg half a tin of soup and a slice of w/m bread for lunch, or a cold meat and salad sandwich, or just cold meat & salad or a jacket potato and SOME beans (instead of the whole tin!) - just a normal light lunch really. Every week I've had at least one day 'off' at a weekend. I eat a lot of fruit in the daytime/evening too and one or two fat free yoghurts. I've just discovered some 10 calorie pots of jellies - apple & watermelon flavour was lovely. Also those Mikado thin biscuits at 11 calories at stick are lovely for a treat without going daft (my daft were family size bars of chocolate before - I barely have any chocolate now - prefer a Magnum lolly when I have a treat so I get the best of both worlds).
Although not counting calories, I'm being mindful of them during the day and then using the plate to it's capacity plus a side salad for evening meal and reckon calorie wise I'm falling into the 1300-1400 a day bracket. The plate takes away the need to count calories in your main meal, it is laid out so you can see the correct portion sizes. I'm never left wishing there'd been more of the main meal, even though it is a much smaller portion than I'd been used to (especially the sort of portions SW allow, which played to my greed!). I nearly always have some fruit or a yoghurt or a jelly after tea. I'm eating much more healthily generally and am enjoying my evening meals much more. Anyway I'm just coming to the end of week 5 (weigh day tomorrow) and have lost around 8lb so far (not really exercising yet either, so hoping to get back into that when I have more time which will surely help more).
Obviously I can't give you any guarantees either that it will work for you, but it definitely works for me. I had set myself a target of getting a stone off before November and in June before the plate I thought I was on a losing battle but with only 4 or 5 lbs to go now, I'm well ahead of my target I'd set for each month and really pleased with my new food outlook. Mum and dad are enjoying using it too and have also lost some weight
Good luck whatever method you choose but hope you'll be able to report in another week to say you've bought the plate and have lost some weight!
Best wishes
Debbie
